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though the journey is long and tiring i will choose to have joy in my heart... Join us on this journey through infant loss on into foster/adoption.
Bear is absolutely stunning. He is always very full of life and energy. He LOVES talking to you if he KNOWS you. If not he is a bit bashful until he warms up to you.
He has been such a big helper these days and is all about doing everything full speed 100%. He can realize a mess and clean it up (or "Keem Uh" rather).
He even goes so far to help keep his bubby company. NOT ONLY do they share a room; I guess that was just not enough... but I went in this morning to greet them for the day and found them BOTH in Moe's CRIB!
Now I know I put Bear to bed last night and I tucked him in. Then I went and checked on him at about 11P before turning in myself. IN BED.
There is a side table next to his bed that is also next to the crib. So my brain power had conjured up that he walked across the table and climbed into the crib with Moe.
I called J in there to find Bear. We both shared a good laugh. We then talked to Bear why that was sweet of him to want to be with Bubby BUT that he needed to stay in his own bed and that it was important to us that he does. He said "ef ma'm" and "es sir" gave us all sweet Bear kisses and went on to his morninng potty routine.
I love our Bear. He is quite the character. We will let him be who God calls him to be and we will not break his spirit by demanding he stop being funny, witty, or spontaneous (even when that means he is doing stuff he knows he should not {within reason}). We do however guide him in LOVE, obedience, discipline, and commitment. And that has made this boy SHINE bright! God will use this "creativity of many colors" to advance the Kingdom one day and we will do our part to see that he is well brought up to help make his path a bit straighter and his foundation a bit stronger.
Oh LORD help us raise our children the way you call us to and not the way the world says we should!
We work with Bear every day on the letters of the alphabet. We also incorporate the alphabet sign using our hands (of course). In that, he loves to sing the "alphabet'' while clicking his little fingers together and moving his hands all around.
Today we were out and about and on our trip to Target we were singing the alphabet and he was in his car seat singing and "signing" right along with us. Then it happened! We got stuck on the P. Every time we would come to the letter P he would say "POTTY!" (we use the term Pee for peeing and Poop for poop... black and white here folks :)) So indeed the letter P reminded him of ... well you get the idea.
Not a big deal typically BUT seeing that he is potty training and can now tell us when he has to go it is a BIG deal. When he says potty he has maybe 5 min of holding time then he HAS TO GO! So when he says it, it sets off a trigger and then he HAS to go!
Welcome to our blog page. We welcome all family and friends to join us on this journey of infant loss on into foster/adoption! Thank you for all your love and support during the seasons of life when it takes more than we have to offer! Please beginhere if you do not know our story. You will go from "the story of us part 1" on to other "newer" posts. It is long just like the road we have been on. But it is worth the read to see where we are now! AND if you really want to know the whole scoop on who I am and where I've been... sit down, grab hold and click here! But be warned... it is brutally honest!
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These three guys are part of the promise that we'd have a family some day. God filled us full. These boys are our family, each one with thier own unique story, Each one adopted into our hearts and home!