Friday, July 2, 2010

hey, how's it going

Okay yeah so I am SLACKING on the blog front. But our home front also looks a bit chaotic right now so don't be too jealous.

We are basically just living day to day without an idea of what is happening. It just goes on. If I can stay on our schedule ... GREAT, but we have learned that pop up visits and appointments, court hearings, mediations (we are about to attend our 3rd one just for Moe) pretty much take over our lives. It's absolutely insane and we are tapped out! **more on that later**

But for now... an update...

Roo is doing great. He has not had any visits with anyone from any sort of biological anything. SO we are feeling pretty confident that he will be ours before too long.

He is 5 months old now (almost 6 on the 12th) He has been a little delayed getting to milestones but I have learned after 5 children that none are the same and that boys are just generally slower at most all things when developing.

But here is what he can do. He is eating solids like a champ. He eats 6 oz of formula Every 3 hours from 7:30A to 7P. He sleeps from 7:30P to 7:30A (has been sleeping from 10P-7A since 2 months old). We moved him to 7:30 when he would no longer wake for his 10P bottle even when we would try so hard to wake him. We just stopped and upped his intake to 6 oz per feeding instead of 4.5 oz.

He is still having a bit of trouble with reflux. We use cereal in every bottle just to thicken it a little and then of course the all famous letting him sit still and not lying him down 30 min after eating.

We got him an amber/hazel wood necklace to wear for it's natural healing remedies (amber - teething pain; Hazel wood - reflux *and a slew of others*) and that helped a little more. So now it is just spit up instead of all out rivers. NICE!

He has been teething HARD for about 2 months now. I see little white knobs starting at the very tops of his gums so it may take a couple months for them to come through but he chews on everything and is so irritable if he doesn't get a dose of his homeopathic teething drops (b.c he is allergic to orajel). Wearing his necklace helps a lot too. So with the combination of all that we have finally found a happy place for our son Rooster! :)

He smiles all the time now. I can get him laughing uncontrollably with pretty much anything I do IF he is in the mood to laugh. He has a very serious disposition about him and if he is in a mood, put him in his bed and shut the door because nothing is going to cheer him up. After he sleeps it off he is all better. We are praying for his spirit to be lighter BUT if that is how God created him then we are praying for a patient and loving wife for him one day!

He is pretty happy go lucky and just enjoys being along for the ride. He can roll from back to front now and reverse. He can scoot all the way across the floor on his back if you let him. He is working on sitting tripod style but could care less to use his arms. He can hold his own bottle although he likes to get attention by letting go just so he can cry about it. I let him cry it out usually and he holds on a bit tighter next time. Is that just mean... Yeah I don't think so either.

He loves to play in his exersaucer and he absolutely ADORES his big brothers. He watches them with such enthusiasm and giggles when they come near him. Nothing like what Miley used to do but he is a boy... I don't expect a whole lot of excitement about much. Not to say they don't get excited about things, they do, but not AS excited as the one girl we had and other girls I have witnessed.

He can grab toys and pull them to his mouth...WHERE everything ends up!

... well, as usual, I have run out of time to sit still for 5 min so I will hopefully be back with more updates soon.

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Am I ready for this...


... Yes I am!

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

A few things

Okay for all of you wanting to follow my private blog... You have to send me your email address to briwachsman(at)gmail(dot)com.

If you leave it on my comments that is fine too. I will not post your comment so that it will not be published for all to see.

But I do need an email address for you to send you an invite. It's the only way to get you onto the new blog.

Thanks for joining me on this journey and praying with us along the way. What a community!

....IMPORTANT NEWS....

Moe's BM gave birth to her new baby boy Sunday morning. He is a month early. He weighs 5 lbs and some change. She hadn't been able to hold him because he was hooked up to oxygen and all sorts of wires. She says they are both doing good but there is LOTS of stress for certain.

Please if you have it in your heart to pray for her... she sure could use it. As well as Moe's BF. (no he's not the father of the new baby). There is a LOT involved here!


....MONDAY....

Okay so as for yesterday. It started out at 8:15 going to court for the grandparents intervention. After sitting there listening to a BUNCH of MUMBO JUMBO for about 2 hours the decision was all on the judge.

He sat there in silence for what seemed like EVER. I just closed my eyes and began to pray for wisdom and peace. I was practically begging for it. Then I just felt like God said to 'look at my face and not my hands'. So I calmed my mind and sat in the presence of the lord, I truly felt at peace. I didn't worry about a thing! All of a sudden I had a picture of a document being unrolled in front of me with a gold stamp on it and I felt like the Lord said "Well done, good and faithful"!

At that moment the judge opened his mouth and said "Given the submitted documentation...I am denying intervention".

THANK YOU JESUS! I just smiled and felt the presence of the Lord SO CLOSE!

After that we went to the mediation.

Dad was in a separate room with his attorney

We were in the room with CASA, Moe's Ad Litem, The mediator, The assistant DA, and CPS workers. We made an offer of what we'd be willing to do for them.

The mediator took that and went to the father, and the mother's attorney went to call BM (she was appearing by phone obviously).

After about an hour and a half the mediator came back and presented to us what the father came back with. But at that time he also said that the mother is so emotional right now that she couldn't get a clear sentence out. So they are going to give her some time to recover from the birth and get home.

Mediation has been rescheduled for June 21st.

I feel at peace about it all. It is just going to take a bit longer to get it all settled.

More details on my other blog...